Orang Melayu memang pantang kalau bangsa sendiri membelakangi adat-adat melayu. Mana yang tak bengang bia gadis cantik ini boleh ikut adat-adat2 kristian. Kalau tengok gambar di atas ini, gadis ini terang bercium mulut selepas pontong kek. Oh yeay diaorang dekat luar negara so tak pelah . tak ada siapa kisah.
Dalam masa sebelum hari perkahwinan, biasanya kristian ini ada hari terkahir sebagai seorang bujang. So yang lelaki ini akan ada party dengan kawan-kawan lelaki dan sebaliknya bagi pihak perempuan.
Kalau tengok gambar kat bawah ini se akan-akan lelaki itu minum arak walaupun dia tahu yang dia kini akan kahwin dengan Wanita Melayu islam. Ohh tak pelah, hari2 terakhir aku sebagai islam. lepas masuk islam jadi suci bersih. Mungkin..
Dalam masa sebelum hari perkahwinan, biasanya kristian ini ada hari terkahir sebagai seorang bujang. So yang lelaki ini akan ada party dengan kawan-kawan lelaki dan sebaliknya bagi pihak perempuan.
Kalau tengok gambar kat bawah ini se akan-akan lelaki itu minum arak walaupun dia tahu yang dia kini akan kahwin dengan Wanita Melayu islam. Ohh tak pelah, hari2 terakhir aku sebagai islam. lepas masuk islam jadi suci bersih. Mungkin..
Lagi 5 gambar lain zemasa hari perkahwinan mengikut adat Kristian
LUAHAN HATI HAIDA YUSOF MENERUSI AKAUN INSTAGRAM BELIAU:-
"So I got back to my hotel room to hoards of hate mails and 'kepoh' comments from people who think they have a clue about what my life is all about. People ask me if I am malay, (pakistan/chinese/indian to be exact) Because that automatically means Islam is budaya Melayu only. First of all, Melayu tak wujud-bangsa tak wujud. (Yang fail sejarah tu please baca balik tgk mana the roots of 'Melayu') Islam never teaches us to differentiate your saudara from skin color, status, blood, etc. Secondly, I had two ceremonies, one to honor my culture, one his. For my muslim ceremony, he honored my culture and rites, so why cant I, too? Islam tak haramkan tolerance with other religion and culture asalkan tk bercanggah dengan Islam. That is NOT a priest officiating us (this is hillarious) he did it out of symbolic cultural references which I found no harm done (its my way of respecting & honoring my inlaws). There was only love and unity in that ceremony ❤️ . Intercultural marriage is one of the most encouraged things to do in Islam, and we compromised to fit both cultural demands and I find that absolutely beautiful. :) what is wrong on embracing cultures? You Malays do many things that are haram in Islam but tutup sebelah mata; bersanding, tepung tawar, hantaran mahal2, cukur kening, fitnah, bukak aib orang tu tak haram? People say if u have nothing nice to say than shut up, you do not live in my shoes and you have no right to play God in my case and you go about worrying abt your own live. I swear extreme mentality like this is the cause for the downfall of this nation. Calm your tits down, Malays and start being kind to your neighbours and stop being overanalytical creeps. Islam tu indah and senang, I married a mualaf and he isnt perfect, neither do I and all of you :) Got time summore to put my pics in collage ��. Be kind to your neighbours and love all and learn and embrace the good. ❤️���� here's to a better, accomodating Malaysia.
P/s: leave your goodie-goodie abusive comments out the door, nak tnya can ask elok2, where's your manners, buat malu mak bapak je."
"Sorry @tia_hash ini hidup saya and awak tak berhak nk advice saya. Awak tak kenal saya, tak berhak nak kata apa2 tentang keislaman saya. Lain cerita kalau awak sendiri faham who am I, mungkin itu ada sense to advice but even then, its not nice to sibuk dengan hal saya. Saya sayang tuhan saya sendiri and budaya melayu tak ada kaitan dengan lifestyle Islam. Cuba kaji apa orang Islam lain di luar negara buat dan buka minda ☺️ saya ni tak la baik sangat to tak bermakna awak pun sama. Kita semua sama je, jadi kalau awak nak follow saya semata2 nak join in the fitnah group, saya advice untuk leave sbb buat tmbah dosa saja. Jangan buat assumptions kalau tak tahu apa2. But saya respect yout opinion, and I shall keep mine. Any insults will be deleted. Please spread the love ��
haidayusofSemua pengecut, comment guna fake accounts and siap bagi ceramah panjang pasal agama. Takbur betul. @adamizz96 hohoho "" KREDIT HAIDA YUSOF
"So I got back to my hotel room to hoards of hate mails and 'kepoh' comments from people who think they have a clue about what my life is all about. People ask me if I am malay, (pakistan/chinese/indian to be exact) Because that automatically means Islam is budaya Melayu only. First of all, Melayu tak wujud-bangsa tak wujud. (Yang fail sejarah tu please baca balik tgk mana the roots of 'Melayu') Islam never teaches us to differentiate your saudara from skin color, status, blood, etc. Secondly, I had two ceremonies, one to honor my culture, one his. For my muslim ceremony, he honored my culture and rites, so why cant I, too? Islam tak haramkan tolerance with other religion and culture asalkan tk bercanggah dengan Islam. That is NOT a priest officiating us (this is hillarious) he did it out of symbolic cultural references which I found no harm done (its my way of respecting & honoring my inlaws). There was only love and unity in that ceremony ❤️ . Intercultural marriage is one of the most encouraged things to do in Islam, and we compromised to fit both cultural demands and I find that absolutely beautiful. :) what is wrong on embracing cultures? You Malays do many things that are haram in Islam but tutup sebelah mata; bersanding, tepung tawar, hantaran mahal2, cukur kening, fitnah, bukak aib orang tu tak haram? People say if u have nothing nice to say than shut up, you do not live in my shoes and you have no right to play God in my case and you go about worrying abt your own live. I swear extreme mentality like this is the cause for the downfall of this nation. Calm your tits down, Malays and start being kind to your neighbours and stop being overanalytical creeps. Islam tu indah and senang, I married a mualaf and he isnt perfect, neither do I and all of you :) Got time summore to put my pics in collage ��. Be kind to your neighbours and love all and learn and embrace the good. ❤️���� here's to a better, accomodating Malaysia.
P/s: leave your goodie-goodie abusive comments out the door, nak tnya can ask elok2, where's your manners, buat malu mak bapak je."
"Sorry @tia_hash ini hidup saya and awak tak berhak nk advice saya. Awak tak kenal saya, tak berhak nak kata apa2 tentang keislaman saya. Lain cerita kalau awak sendiri faham who am I, mungkin itu ada sense to advice but even then, its not nice to sibuk dengan hal saya. Saya sayang tuhan saya sendiri and budaya melayu tak ada kaitan dengan lifestyle Islam. Cuba kaji apa orang Islam lain di luar negara buat dan buka minda ☺️ saya ni tak la baik sangat to tak bermakna awak pun sama. Kita semua sama je, jadi kalau awak nak follow saya semata2 nak join in the fitnah group, saya advice untuk leave sbb buat tmbah dosa saja. Jangan buat assumptions kalau tak tahu apa2. But saya respect yout opinion, and I shall keep mine. Any insults will be deleted. Please spread the love ��
haidayusofSemua pengecut, comment guna fake accounts and siap bagi ceramah panjang pasal agama. Takbur betul. @adamizz96 hohoho "" KREDIT HAIDA YUSOF
ARTIKEL INI HANYALAH PERKONGSIAN DARI PELBAGAI WEBSITE DAN BLOG. KAMI TIDAK BERTANGGUNGJAWAB KEATAS SEGALA PANDANGAN DAN PENDAPAT TENTANG ARTIKEL INI. TERIMA KASIH
